The magic of stones. How to wear stones. Rules and recommendations

Jewelry with precious stones is not just a beautiful addition to your look. If you know how to wear stones correctly, you can significantly improve your business or improve your health . In the same way, improper handling of the talisman can ruin all efforts. Therefore, first you need to choose exactly the mineral that will both contribute to achieving your goals and suit you. Now you can find many recommendations about combinations of gems with your birth month or zodiac sign. But it is much more important that when you put on the talisman, you feel comfortable. Because if wearing a stone causes you anxiety, a depressed mood, or simply unpleasant sensations, then this is not your amulet, no matter what is written in books about the properties of stones. There is no need to overpower yourself in such cases. Better look for another amulet.

How to check if this is your talisman?

Checking how well you and a stone suit each other is easy, but it takes time. For at least a week, the proposed talisman should be placed under the pillow at night. You can still put it on yourself, but also only at night. In the second case, the stone must be in contact with your skin. Signs that the chosen talisman is not for you will be bad dreams, illnesses or troubles. If you come across these things quite often during the week, you should not use the selected gem as a talisman.

Crystal quality

For a good talisman, the quality of the mineral from which it is made is very important. Cut, clarity, color and luster should be fine. Stones with dark stains, chips or internal cracks should be avoided. If, according to the characteristics accepted for assessing the quality of a particular crystal, it is considered defective or low-grade, then you should not take it for an amulet. The clearer and purer the stone, the more strongly it will manifest its properties. For amulets, you cannot use synthetic crystals, imitations and stones that have been subjected to a refinement process.

“Dangerous” gems for gifts

All stones with noticeable defects should not be worn, much less given as a gift. Cracks, chips, stains and other defects can only bring misfortune because they have negative energy.

Some stones are considered symbols of unhappy love or have a negative effect on the human reproductive system. This applies, for example, to hyacinth. It has powerful magical properties, so it should not be given to a girl happy in love, it can destroy her happiness.

You should not give jewelry with emeralds to a girl with outstanding intelligence. It has long been noted that emerald brings only misfortune to smart and educated women.

You cannot give or wear jewelry with blue topaz at a wedding - it symbolizes loneliness and depression. Also, you should not give jewelry with alexandrite (natural one is very difficult to find, so most likely it will be a synthetic mineral), because the glory of the “widow’s” is firmly attached to it.

Opal is a complex gem; it can cause hatred towards the person who gave it. You can only buy it for yourself and with your own money.

Blue Topaz Hyacinth

Coral also requires caution when giving a gift. It cannot be given to a young capricious girl, otherwise her character will become even more unbearable, because coral greatly enhances the self-centeredness of the owner. However, during some astrological periods, for example, in 2022, the Year of the Pig, the properties of the stone may change so much that they may, on the contrary, be recommended for wearing.

What jewelry to choose for a talisman

The general rule is that for the crystal to manifest itself, it must be in contact with your skin. Those. its frame should not interfere with this. The choice of jewelry in which your gem will be set affects its strength and energy. This is due to the location of the chakras and energy channels.

Earrings

Ear stones will affect your perception. Therefore, gems that have calming properties are best suited for earrings. As well as those responsible for feelings, intelligence or the ability to concentrate. In addition, in earrings you can and should use those gems that are recommended to be worn in pairs: pearls, amethyst and alexandrite.

Necklaces

Gems in neck jewelry immediately affect two important chakras: the heart and throat. The first, in addition to health, is associated with the most important desires and goals. The second affects eloquence and the ability to persuade people. Very useful to wear in necklaces are: • moonstone (heals the thyroid gland); • amazonite, beryl or aquamarine (strengthen the ability to clearly and beautifully express your thoughts and win disputes); • amethyst (in beads - gives courage to express one’s own point of view, in a gold pendant - improves energy balance); • pomegranate (helps cope with diseases of the lungs and bronchi); • pearls (helps get rid of indecision in love).

Brooches

Just like necklaces influence either the heart and aspirations, or the throat and the ability to influence others. It depends on where exactly you pinned the brooch. For example, if you need to attract romance and love into your life, wear a moonstone brooch close to your heart. If you lack passion, put a pomegranate talisman in the same place.

Bracelets

Traditionally, talismans of protection and peace were worn on the wrists. Active minerals have no place here, because then they can completely subjugate the will of a person. Moonstone in a bracelet helps fight fatigue and stress. It relaxes and helps our body open its “second wind”. In order to manifest this property, you need to wear the stone on your right hand.

Amethyst will help maintain peace of mind, restore strength and protect against illness.

Belts

Stones worn in the middle of the body can have an impact on vitality. One of the most common stones used in buckles is turquoise because it relieves stress.

In ancient times, amethyst was often worn on the belt. It was believed that this was one of the best talismans for male strength. In addition, it helped the owner to protect himself from intoxication. It is not recommended to wear gemstones lower than the belt buckle.

Rings

Of course, rings are most often used as talismans and amulets with stones. After all, each finger has its own influence on our destiny and body. It is also important which hand you will wear the ring on. The left one is for receiving information and things. For example, you should wear stones on it that are designed to improve your financial situation or bring good luck, such as alexandrite, turquoise or green beryl. Talismans that are designed to give are worn on your right hand. For example, if you want to learn how to show love, you can wear a rose quartz ring on the index finger of your right hand.

Each finger on the hand has its own influence.

Left hand fingers:

Index - helps to achieve your goals. Amazonite, turquoise and aquamarine are suitable for it. Middle – responsible for vital energy and balance. In order to feel more energetic, it is recommended to wear a silver ring with an amethyst inserted into it. Moonstone is also good for a talisman on this finger. Nameless - responsible for creativity and imagination. Amethyst and garnet are suitable for rings on this finger. The little finger attracts changes in life. A green garnet or emerald is suitable for it.

Right hand fingers:

Index - helps in realizing intentions. Encourages action. The ideal option would be beryl. Medium – enhances intuition. It is good to wear agate, rock crystal, aquamarine. Nameless - helps to achieve success in creativity. Moonstone will contribute to this. The little finger allows you to change yourself and your life. Jade will help with this

You should be extremely careful when wearing stones on your thumbs. They are responsible for the health of the head and neck. And the levels of the psyche are influenced by our beliefs.

Special rules

But in order for the talisman to bring maximum benefit, you need to know not only the general rules, but also the “habits” of each individual mineral.

Amethyst

This gem loves silver very much. It is better not to wear amethyst in a gold frame. The only exception is jewelry that contains multiple gemstones. For example, amethyst goes well with emeralds, rock crystal, moonstone or aquamarines. Amethyst should be worn occasionally, and not all the time. Otherwise, all the negative energy that the stone absorbs to protect you may splash out on you. So give the amethyst a rest often. And don’t forget to occasionally clean your talisman under running water.

Moon rock

This gem is recommended to be worn only during the period from the new to the full moon. When the moon wanes, the moonstone will feed on your energy, which is of no use. Belomorite reaches its maximum magical power on the days of the full moon. This is when it will be most useful. Moonstone is recommended to be worn together with pearls, amethyst, coral, onyx sapphire or lapis lazuli. You need to clean this mineral at least once a month. To do this, you can either use running water or simply lower the stone into a vessel with water for several hours. It is also useful to leave it overnight under the rays of moonlight. This will charge your talisman with additional energy.

Pomegranate

Unlike previous stones, grenades can be worn and removed only occasionally. True, not everyone. After all, if a person is already too hot-tempered and emotional, then constantly wearing a pomegranate can simply lead him to nervous exhaustion. But for those who need to look at the world with a smile, this talisman will not hurt.

When choosing a pomegranate as a talisman, it is important to remember that red and green pomegranates do not get along with each other. That is, you should not wear two of these gems at the same time. But agate, sapphire or emerald can complement the properties of this mineral.

Stones that should not be worn according to your zodiac sign

Numerology also helps to avoid mistakes when choosing a stone as a gift. Using the exact date of birth, you need to find the number by adding to one. For example, date of birth - November 26, 1994 is 2+6+1+1+1+9+9+4 = 33 = 3+3 = 6.

Each number corresponds to minerals that are not recommended to be worn.

Birth number and gemstones to avoid

What should you do if you find a “dangerous” talisman in your collection or you were recently given a product with such a gem? Or maybe when choosing, you yourself pointed to a piece of jewelry with an insert that, according to all horoscopes and numerology, does not suit you? The main thing in this case is to check your attitude towards the stone and your feelings when interacting with this decoration or talisman.

Listen to yourself - what emotions arise? We are all very different people and not a single horoscope can determine for you which gem is suitable and which is not. And the minerals themselves are by no means the same and can differ in energy, regardless of their belonging to one group or another. So in any case, the choice must come from the heart.

Caution is paramount

Esotericists advise taking the choice of stone seriously. You should find out its main characteristics and determine whether it is suitable for a person.

Any mineral is an accumulation of energy with which it is shared with the owner. Found and donated stones are treated with extreme caution. It is unknown what energy he absorbed earlier.

If the stone belonged to a bad person, it contains his negative energy field and in the future will share it with the new owner. Such a talisman is dangerous. It will manifest itself in the form of difficulties, need, illness, betrayal.

To protect yourself from negative influences, esotericists advise wearing only new stones that do not contain foreign energy.