I'll tell you a secret - rings give us more information than we used to think. For thousands of years, men have worn them to communicate status, wealth, and membership in a particular society. A man's ring can tell us that you are married or single, that you attended a military academy, or that you are part of a fraternity or culture.
The purpose of this article is to learn how to wear a ring (or multiple rings) with confidence and style. First, we will look at the hidden meaning of a ring placed on a particular finger, and then we will familiarize ourselves with the five rules that every man who wears jewelry on his hands must follow.
Which hand to wear the ring on
For the most part, there are no hard and fast rules for wearing rings. Engagement and wedding rings are an exception, as there are many specific cultural traditions, each requiring them to be worn differently. Therefore, when putting on a ring, you should not worry about the left-right hand rule, since in most cases there is none. If there is a difference on which hand to wear it, then you will be warned about this in advance.
In some cultures it is customary to wear a wedding ring on the right hand, in others - on the left
However, you can decide which hand to wear the ring on based on how you feel most comfortable. The right hand is usually viewed as the "physical" hand - the active, dominant hand that performs most gestures and actions. The left is considered the “mental” hand, representing your character and beliefs. This, of course, applies to right-handed people; for left-handed people the opposite is true.
After all, we're talking about some very abstract concepts here - don't be afraid to go your own way and do what you like.
Signet stones
If you choose a huge signet with a bright red stone, and even in an openwork finish, then calmly expect trouble. Unless, of course, you are a singer, actor, artist or bohemian, or your Roman brothers.
Signet stones should be modest. If you are buying a diamond ring, these may be small stones that make up a geometric pattern.
Most often you can find men's signets with a black stone. It can be either semi-precious stones - onyx, agate, obsidian, or precious stones - diamond, black pearl or opal. Precious stones are set into gold or platinum, semi-precious stones serve as decoration for a silver signet.
The most popular over the past decades has been the onyx signet. Men can wear such rings under a suit, under jeans, or as a stylish accessory under a tailcoat. According to astrologers, onyx gives the owner strength and determination.
On which finger to wear a man's ring?
Let's figure out what a man's ring on each finger symbolizes and, for fun, consider its cultural meaning.
Pinky ring
Men's pinky ring
Culture&history
There aren't many cultural connotations to a pinky ring. For this reason, rings worn for self-expression are often placed on this finger. But there is one peculiarity of the pinky ring, as it is most often associated with belonging to organized crime. Mafia members wear pinky rings and cinema has made it common knowledge (long live the godfather!)
In some parts of Europe, a signet ring was worn on the little finger to symbolize the family and its status.
Style
The pinky ring is smaller and therefore cheaper. So if you don’t have a lot of savings, then your choice will probably fall on such decoration. In addition, despite its size, a ring on the little finger will attract attention no less than on any other finger.
Ring on the ring finger
Men's ring on the ring finger
Culture&history
This finger is traditionally reserved for an engagement or wedding ring. Depending on the culture and religion of the owner, the wedding ring is worn on either the right or left hand. For example, men marrying in the Orthodox Church will wear their wedding ring on their right hand, as will men from Denmark, Norway, Russia, Poland and Bulgaria.
Style
Since most men prefer to choose simpler wedding rings, if you wear something more noticeable and bright, it is unlikely to be mistaken for an engagement ring. For example, an engagement ring with small diamonds all around can be both a decoration and a wedding ring.
Ring on the middle finger
Men's ring on the middle finger
Culture&history
The person who wears a ring on this finger prefers comfort and style. Surprisingly, very few people wear rings on their middle finger. This is likely because you will need a much larger ring for that finger, which will incur additional costs. This is probably the most “masculine” finger for a ring, since no one will mistake it for an engagement ring (not to mention how stylish you can “send” people thanks to it).
Style
For this finger, it is best to choose a simple ring made of dark or gray material. If you are going to purchase jewelry with a stone, then do not let the stone protrude far from the ring. This rule applies to all men's rings, but especially those worn on the middle finger.
Index finger ring
Men's ring on the middle finger
Culture&history
It is traditional to wear rings with a signet or family crest on the index finger; over time, this tradition was adopted by various clubs, societies and fraternities; throughout most of Europe and America.
Style
Since we use this finger the most, the ring on it attracts a lot of looks and attention. You should also not wear very bulky rings, as they can scratch the car door when opening it, and indeed many things that fall into your hands.
Thumb ring
Men's thumb ring
Culture&history
Thumb rings are very rare in our culture. If you are one of those people who wants to do everything differently, not like others, then this choice is for you. In other parts of the world, thumb rings are very common and symbolize wealth (which is not surprising given their cost).
Style
Although men's rings tend to be simple, the thumb ring is an exception. It is customary to make it bulky and sometimes with large precious stones. In addition, if you already wear other rings, then putting another one on your thumb will not create the effect of overload and clutter.
About the history of rings and rings for men
According to archaeological excavations, the first rings, made from bones, hair, and herbs, arose during the Paleolithic period. They were used as amulets and talismans that attracted good luck and protected from dangers. Then rings began to be made of gold. King Solomon, ruler of the united kingdom of Israel, often mentioned rings in his works.
The ring has come to us since ancient times
Even in those days, rings and rings were full-fledged men's jewelry. Different civilizations have developed many different legends, superstitions and customs regarding rings. For example, in Ancient Greece, people believed that the very first ring belonged to Prometheus. The Greeks also created a tradition of how and where to wear a wedding ring. The first signets were created here, with the help of which the priests indicated their faith in the deity. And in ancient Rome, rings meant power and wealth, and were initially available only to the upper classes.
In the Middle Ages, the symbolism of men's rings and rings strengthened significantly. At that time, rings with the image of the family coat of arms arose, which were a kind of family heirloom and were kept in the family for many centuries. Also in the Middle Ages, rings acquired various functions.
For example, archers wore three rings made of steel to protect their fingers when using a bow. And in fist fights, rings similar to brass knuckles appeared. In some cases, a man's ring was a dangerous weapon. Such jewelry had special slots in which poison could be stored. Another type of ring of this era was pass rings. For example, a ring with the image of Adam’s head served as a pass to a meeting of the Freemasons.
By the 18th century, men's jewelry became more sophisticated. They denoted wealth and splendor. And by the 19th century, rings and rings acquired a familiar appearance and purpose. In our country, rings stopped being used after the October Revolution. The style of wearing rings returned to the 70s of the 20th century. At first, wedding rings were most common. Towards the end of the 20th century, rings, rings, and signets could be seen on men, which they wore to decorate their appearance.
How to wear rings, 5 rules
Rule #1: Every ring sends a signal
Served in the Naval Academy, Airborne Forces or Flight School? A ring featuring these establishments will show your connection to some of history's greatest soldiers, sailors, airmen and Marines.
Keep this in mind when putting on your ring.
Want to show off your greatness? In some parts of the world, large gold rings with precious stones indicate a person of significant wealth.
Looking for a life partner or just want to have fun? Wedding rings play an important role and tell you how far things can go with that attractive stranger you just met.
And don't doubt that people pay attention to rings. They may remain silent, but they have already scanned your hands within seconds of meeting you and formed an opinion about you. So be careful about what messages you send to others.
Rule #2: Be confident
How confident are you about the extra rings on your hands? Don't wear the ring in public until you are confident and used to it. It's best to wear your new ring at home first until you get used to its weight and feel. Then start wearing it in front of people you trust and see how they react. Get used to their comments before you start wearing your jewelry in public.
In addition, find out the history of the ring, if there is one, then be prepared to answer questions about it. Is it a family heirloom that has been passed down from generation to generation? Is that ring you bought during your summer vacation in Europe and it reminds you of that trip? Regardless of the story, your ring has the potential to be a great conversation starter.
Rule #3: Keep the rings in proportion to your hands
Rings should be proportional to your hands.
If you have large hands, you can wear large rings. Men with smaller hands should balance out the proportions by wearing smaller rings.
Likewise, if you have thin fingers, stick to compact and thin rings, while wider rings are preferred for men with fuller fingers.
Rule #4: Balance the ring(s) with other jewelry
Keep rings balanced with other accessories on your hand
Avoid clustering rings together on one hand and always match them with other jewelry on your hands. If you wear a ring and watch on your left hand, create balance with a bracelet on your right wrist.
Rule No. 5: Unity of metals
There are no hard and fast rules for combining metals, however, to make life easier, it is better to pay attention to the choice of one material.
It is best that the metal of your jewelry be the same or at least match
Most men prefer silver or gold. If you don’t have such preferences, then make a choice based on your skin tone. Wear silver if you have a cool tone. For reference, your skin tone is cool if blue veins are clearly visible on your arm. Wear gold if you have a warmer skin tone. In this case, your veins will not be very noticeable.
I personally really like it when the rings match the accessories: the metal on the belt buckle, on the watch strap and the metal of the ring are the same tone.
What is the difference between a ring and a signet?
A ring is a massive ring with a precious stone and minerals; it is often classified as status jewelry and it is correct for a man to wear rings with the stone facing up.
The difference between a ring and a signet
A signet is a type of ring without a stone, but with inscriptions or images applied. It is often symbolic and worn face down, looks quite large and is a masculine adornment. The signet is worn on the little finger or ring finger.
Application
Black jewelry stones are used to create rare and expensive pieces of jewelry. Precious small-sized pieces are set in platinum or gold. The cost of the finished product depends on the weight and condition of the gem.
Rings, earrings, bracelets, rings made from semi-precious pieces, set in silver, look contrasting, elegant and stylish. Due to their massiveness, the rings look impressive and solid. They are chosen by those who want to show their power or connection with mystical forces.
Natural black ornamental stones are popular for creating decorative items.
They are used to make figurines of various shapes, souvenirs, magnets, as well as jewelry: bracelets, rings, earrings. Used to create a stylish interior, making fireplaces, facing slabs, table clocks, lamps.
Black gems symbolize wisdom, some secret knowledge and abilities, so they will be a good talisman for a strong man or a powerful woman. But many lithotherapists advise not to wear them too often, so that the energy of the stone does not harm the owner.
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